
This summer I carried around a notebook on our many travels and kept a running list of ideas and plans for our new school year. One of our last trips was to an Intervarsity Staff Conference, which is basically like a retreat for me-the wife of a staff worker. I enjoyed the fellowship and inspirational times of worship or speakers. I also enjoyed lots of time to myself in prayer and planning. Little Bird and Super Frog loved playing with the other staff kids and there was a team a wonderful babysitters :) A perfect combination!
One thing I heard clearly there was that Frog needed to learn to pray. Getting him to pray any time is like pulling teeth and I started to think about it...I don't think we've ever specifically taught him to pray. I was so encouraged to hear on a walk with my husband one night that he had also been burdened with Frog's lack of prayer--or willingness to pray.
I was reminded there at the retreat to keep the main things the main things. Frog will learn all those important school things in the years to come. I want to firmly establish the ideas and concepts that surround our faith and love of Jesus...and Lord willing that faith and love will be created in him too.
Earlier in the spring I had purchased a book at our MOPS resale (along with many other things--puzzles, games and more books). The book is
What Shall We Pray About by Andy Robb. It's a cute book that gives suggestions of things to pray about with fun, friendly pictures. It was a great starting point for Frog. We read a page each day and talked about the pictures. We each chose one thing to pray about and prayed right then. Daddy also started requiring Frog to pick one thing to pray for every night. At first Frog would pick things like the wall...Daddy did a wonderful job of being graceful and thanking God in his prayer for the wall too, because it holds up our house and we need a house to live in...
Now that we are done the book Frog is into the routine of praying with very little prompting. We made a list of all the people around us, our family, all the activities we're involved in and much more to pray for. So now we take out that list every morning and I give him a few suggestions. I think the key is he helped me to make that list. I envisioned doing something real fancy with colorful pictures but our handwritten list is doing just fine.
Another note: Little Bird has picked up on our prayer time and often folds her hands and bows her head too. We ask her what she wants to pray for and usually she says, "Layla, hit car..." Which means she wants to pray for the lady that got hit by a car in the parking lot of the grocery store one day. It was a very minor injury but we helped by calling 911 (just as I was teaching Frog about dialing 911 for emergencies that week). I think it has made a big impression on her. We saw the ambulance come and everything. Again, the lady was not badly hurt but we pray for her to heal and know Jesus almost everyday.